What does it mean to be intelligent?
I’ve been obsessed with The Celebrity Traitors UK - have you watched it? As well as being absolutely brilliant TV it’s also reinforced something really important - that intelligence isn’t just one thing. It doesn’t only come with a PhD. It doesn’t guarantee success. And it certainly doesn’t make you a good traitor or faithful!
Watching the show, I was struck by how it mirrored what we see in schools, workplaces and wider society: a narrow definition of intelligence. One that values academia, strategy, and slick talking - while overlooking instinct, emotional insight, and lived experience.
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Today I’m talking about:
Info: What The Celebrity Traitors UK reveals about how we define intelligence
Tips: Ways to recognise and value diverse intelligences in your world
Recommendations: Resources to help broaden your understanding of neurodiversity
Spoiler alert: I talk about who won The Celebrity Traitors UK, including who was in the final. So don’t read on if you don’t want to know!
Not just book smarts
From the start of the show, a few people were talked about as being particularly intelligent, for example Stephen Fry and historian, David Olusoga. Both highly educated, articulate, and by all accounts, ‘clever people’. Same with Nick Mohammed. But all of them floundered in the game. Their form of intelligence - the kind we often reward in professional settings - didn’t translate into success in this game show.
Why? Because the game wasn’t about being the most intellectual person in the room. It was about adaptability, persuasion, emotional awareness and in many ways, instinct.
It was about reading people, and being read differently yourself.
Compare Stephen, David and Nick with Jo Marler. Not someone you’d typically call an academic, but he clocked the traitors when no one else did. His instincts were bang on. His ability to piece things together was impressive. But where he struggled was bringing people along with him. His social and emotional intelligence perhaps weren’t strong enough to make his case stick.
And then there was Alan Carr.
Alan didn’t see himself as a strategist. He joked and charmed his way through the show. He used his comedic smarts, and it worked so well for him. He won. Deservedly.
But for me the unexpected winner(s) of the show were Claudia, and the production team. They are responsible for picking the traitors. And they did a phenomenal job!
The traitors as a group were fascinating. What made them successful wasn’t individual genius. It was the blend. The balance of skills, temperaments, and approaches. They complemented each other, just like the best teams do in real life.
I’m not sure Alan would have won on his own, but with Cat Burns and Jonathan Ross in his team, they made it happen together.
The Celebrity Traitors UK taught me more than I was expecting!
We don’t value different types of intelligence enough, and our view is far too narrow. We all need to challenge ourselves to break free of this in order to build teams at work and to value each other.
Secondly, the best teams aren’t made of the best individuals. They are made of the best group that complement each other, and work well together.
Tips: how to champion different kinds of intelligence
Rethink what you call “smart”
Is it memory? Eloquence? Strategy? Start noticing the other forms - emotional awareness, creativity, instinct, humour.Spot the silent skills
Some people don’t shout about their brilliance. Look for quiet connectors, pattern spotters, and those who shift the mood of a room.Create space for all brains to shine
In meetings, classrooms, or conversations - vary how people can contribute. Written input, small groups, visual aids all help different thinkers thrive.Challenge assumptions
If someone doesn’t fit your idea of intelligence, ask yourself why. Who decided what “clever” looks like?Balance your teams like the traitors did
Don’t just hire or partner with people who think like you. Seek out contrast. It strengthens the whole.
Recommended Resources
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Get your ticketsThe Traitors UK: Celebrity Edition
If you haven’t watched it yet, give it a go. And let me know what you think! What kinds of intelligence did you spot?
Final thought
Being clever doesn’t mean having all the answers. Sometimes it means asking the right questions or knowing when to stay quiet and watch the room. Intelligence is plural. Let’s start treating it that way.
Speak soon,
Jess
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PPS Here's what someone messaged me following a session I ran recently, on mental health and neurodiversity - sometimes it’s important to acknowledge the dire situation before committing to making a difference… "Very interesting Jess - thank you very much. Still feel a bit sick from the facts at the beginning but it is important to understand.” |
